to get cheated on...

It hurts to get cheated on.
It doesn't only hurt, it stinks as well.

The smell of a rotten promise.
A promise made and never kept in the right circumstances.
A promise broken, shattered and dismounted.

The smell of a filthy heart.
A heart that walked astray and went fetching for another companion.
With no alert, no explanation and no right.
A heart that is selfish, harsh and hardened.
A heart, that all the love in the world won't be enough for.
A heart who is a taker and a breaker.
A heart who hasn't learnt the meaning of giving back.
A heart who hasn't ever tasted the sweetness of loving back:
The relentless adoration, admiration and appreciation;
The unstoppable flow of care and safety.
A heart who is not able to love.

Such incapable hearts and distorted souls cheat.
Cheat and break the hearts of true lovers.
Break, smash and squash their will to love unconditionally.
Mutate their souls into unconfident, scared and scarred beings:
Confused between holding on to their true colors or turning into one of these monsters;
Stretched between their instinct to survive and their instinct to love.
Many cross over to this dark side of heart breakers.
A few, a very few of them understand that the only cure to such harshness is to:
Love more;
Give more, give until you've given it all;
Smile more;
And share it all.
The longer you give and the more defiant you are about your love,
You help the world heal.
Heal from all its atrocities.
Heal from all its heartaches.
Heal from all its violence.

So eventually,
You will fill the cracks of your heartache
And mend the scars of the cheating,
With all the love you give.
Because the more you smile
The more you give,
And the more you open up,
The more "universe" will come into you.
So you get full and filled -
Filled with all the love there is out there.

You no longer feel cheated on then.
No. You feel sorry for your cheater.
For he - one day - had a heart but lost it in the battle...